Saturday, February 23, 2008

First Post

All the kids have blogs, and some grandkids. Guess it's time to get with the program. Thought I would share some thoughts of the past week for a first post.

Family: A friend passed away unexpectedly. Amid the grief and tears and shared memories a comment came to our ears. A daughter of the friend mentioned how at get-togethers she would watch our family and felt jealous. That comment made me reflect. Jealous? Of us? I tend to react to what attacks my comfort zone while overlooking the peace and values that surround me every day. I smiled as I reflected on what we have; our family interrelationships. We are functional. We care about each other amid ups and downs. Love covers each other's failings. Irritations come and go but don't affect the greater value of being family. In a crisis we are without question there for each other. And best of all, this is "normal" for us. As my dad would have said, "You can't buy that with money." Yup, priceless. What a blessing.

4 comments:

la femme elisabeth said...

Hey Dad--glad to see you gave in to the peer-pressure and when I told the kids you have a blog now, too, Ava said "Yay!!"
I am glad we are family and I love you. --e
P.S. What does the title of your blog mean?

April said...

nice work, dad.
and e, i think it has something to do with liking buggies and a secret desire to be a barista...buggista. maybe dad should blog about this.

Mel (AKA Dad, Papa Mel, Grampa) said...

A group of us into dune buggies call ourselves "buggistas." I don't know who coined the term. I just thoughtit was clever. Just got back from hosting a run to Death Valley. I hope to get some pix of it up once this old dog learns the new trick. something for the grandkids to enjoy.

la femme elisabeth said...

ahhhhh, i was pronouncing it wrong. Thought it was Bug-ista with a short i. oops! that makes more sense. love the profile pic, too!